Eva Longoria confessed that at the beginning of the cheating scandal with Tony Parker she had doubts, thinking she wasnt sexy or pretty enough, but immediately stopped herself from the negative self talk. Instead she thought, It wasnt about who he chose. I just think, Wow, okay, thats the life you want to live. And now shes stronger than ever saying, I am so secure in who I am. I really am. And I'm not conceited