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Usher's Wife Is Pissed

December 03, 2007


"We (black women) don't like ourselves. If I were Hispanic, Usher would have the sexiest wife alive. If I were mixed, he'd have the sexiest wife alive. "But he has a black girl, and it's like, 'She's horrible and she's ugly!' OK, maybe I don't fit the cookie-cutter standard - 25 and a size two - but this is who he loves."

---Usher's wife Tameka Foster lashes out at 'jealous' fans in Essence magazine

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5:33AM 05/24/09 sunsweet
I didn't at first glance realize she was an older woman.People need to stop comparing her to Chili.At least Usher and Tameka did it right-they got married. Their wasn't no playin house. First,it doesn't matter what a person has,let alone how they look that counts.At least that's how it should be.My momma always told me that a man marries who they really want.All the other women,well something went wrong.Although many factors play into divorce,the fact they asked for your hand in marriage as oppose to any other woman is saying a lot.And there is nothing like being the first and only wife(well wishes to both Usher and Tameka)
10:25AM 02/14/09 seschris
It is so sad that black women disrespect each other so much. Since when is a single mother marrying a single man wrong? Women marry men with kids all the time and nobody cares. And who ever told yall that dark skin women are not beautiful was a LIAR. This woman is only 7 years older than her husband. If it were to other way around nobody would care. The fact is Usher choose the woman he loved and he married her. And it wasn't none of yall haters. Leave MRS. Raymond alone to enjoy her husband any how she wants to.
3:27PM 02/11/09 Reyna
YEP she made a GOOD POINT THIS IS WHO HE LOVES!!!!!!!!!!!!!;) YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL GIRL......FU.....them hatin ho....s
7:47PM 10/26/08 Habib
This is a message from an African brothe living in the Middle East. It is wrong to judge someone by the color of their skin. But history shows that we, coloured people are more racist than white people, because we also hate ourselves... Usher is only attractive to some insecure youngsters, or young blacks who have a low self esteem/expectation of themselves. We coloured people love to show of and make dram when we feel not being ecepted by the majority... That's a fact. Would you girls really fall for him if he was cleaning at McDonalds.... hihihi.... Both of them aren't attractive, to be honest. So, they match well. Love his music, but only when it is written by babyface. His mother probably has many sleepless nights asking herself: "where did I went wrong"?. We Africans know this phenomenon. She gave him all,...except motherlove. So he will look for it somewhere else. Can you imagine? Tameka is almost as old as his mother, has already 5 children from 2 different guys and the 6th and upcoming 7th are from Usher. Family tragedy or curse we would also call it back home in Nigeria. Because blacks are always jealous at themselve, ...wherever you may go. I have seen it from Belgium, Texas to Korea because of my job I travel sometimes. Nevertheless: keep them songs coming up, bro. Let it burn...!
5:05PM 10/13/08 Arene
She is telling the truth!
6:18AM 09/16/08 keta
usher's wife has a point, the media and others put women that are nonblack on a pedestal where some of them dont belong, there are ugly women in different races and it is hard for black men to accept that that is why the divorce rate in society is now at almost 60 percent because of stupidity
2:42PM 09/09/08 expression44
Girl enjoy your husband stop thinking bad about your self.hes yours have fun with him. you see he likes older women that should tell you something.good luck
2:49PM 09/08/08 olcpyt
At that the truth girl, you are a beautiful not just black but woman. Who care about the haters?
4:24PM 09/05/08 giniaginia
I never said anything about her. Honestly, it's a matter survival and living your life.
3:38PM 08/31/08 Ayoki
Black is beautiful no matter the shape, shade or size...but i don't think its health for women to talk about other women because they lack self confidence or style....however if you are comfortable with yourself there is no need to lash out if you know he loves you for you...especially in a known publication such as essence.....because you find yourself lowering your standards....to react in such a matter..
9:22AM 08/19/08 Jade
Everyone cant be wrong. Look at Kobes wife. Shes hispanic/ not black and still ugly. The truth of the matter is that people have watched usher bloom and blossom into the person he is now. It goes from Chilli to his wife. U cannot compare the two. His wife will still b ugly whether she was indian, italian, white, hispanic, etc....She does have her moments. And as a black woman, I love myself and my color. Wouldnt have it any other way. So what I say unto one, I say unto all...Speak for yourself!
9:21AM 08/19/08 Jade
Everyone cant be wrong. Look at Kobes wife. Shes hispanic/ not black and still ugly. The truth of the matter is that people have watched usher bloom and blossom into the person he is now. It goes from Chilli to his wife. U cannot compare the two. His wife will still b ugly whether she was indian, italian, white, hispanic, etc....She does have her moments. And as a black woman, I love myself and my color. Wouldnt have it any other way. So what I say unto one, I say unto all...Speak for yourself!
0:02PM 08/07/08 B-Brezzy
I just want to back up Ushers wifes comments! I agree with what she is saying to a degree. Its not that all blk women hate themselves but its the media and other sources the try to depict lighter skin women as being the thing to have. There are some white and light skin ugly people too.
5:42AM 08/07/08 TSMALLS
HOT DAMN!! SHE REALLY DOESN'T KNOW THAT SHE LOOKS LIKE A DAMN MAN. BUT THEY SAY SAY THAT A OLDER WOMAN WILL HOOK A YOUNG MAN QUICK.
4:17PM 08/06/08 marie
you tell them girl. it don't i think shes a good looking women and a good wife because shes pleasing her men and hes happy with by his side.
10:39AM 07/27/08 if it looks like a duck than you know the rest
if you just dont have it you dont have you ugly you ugly but everybody needs to 2 be loved sometimes and it just was you at the time that fall in love with i am sure that he just in it for the son and cause father wasnt there he is going to be there so just chill and donrt worry about what we think he picked you shit everybodt wants usher and you was ONE of the ones he hit and married so fu---- what spend that bitch money like you want and rasie your son with him cause he anit going anywhere right now you got him for 18 years make sure you put so money in another account for that day whae he comes and say i will be i his life but dont what to be with you so bitch you better save some of that money if you know like i know
10:37AM 07/25/08 us @ united we stand
sweetheart, it has nothing to do with the color of your skin, this is a talented young man who just happened to get an older woman, who is not pretty at all pregnant. You ought to be ashamed of yourself for sleeping with someone who could be your own son. I am on his mom's side. He has alot going for him, and when you get older, regardless that you have his child, what makes you think he is not going to leave you for someone younger!
7:02AM 07/17/08 kerryann
usher wife is not ugly she is beauitful and all u people talking ur just jeoulous and thats u guys promle if all u wish u could be in the postion where shes at now i am black too but tamkia it has nothing to do with the color of ur skin ok it really dont matter what nobody say if usher thinks ur beautiful he is not lieing so listen to thr man u love
1:40PM 07/11/08 seschris
Judge not less you be judged! Tameka and Usher Raymond are happy...MIND YOUR BUSINESS!!!
10:37PM 07/09/08 Shelly
Hey I do think she is ugly but sometimes looks isnt eveything its about how she is inside and obviously usher loves her and that's all that matters. She must be good to get usher and have his baby AND MARRY him that is deep.
7:41PM 07/09/08 dlk
O-M-G Usher married a MAN!!??
11:49PM 06/29/08 J.smoove
I still don't see why he went from chili to that ugly beast.
3:37PM 06/27/08 barbie
well usher himself isnt that attractive either. i think they are compatible. but people should stop being mean to her. she cant help that shes ugly.
9:00AM 06/27/08 joccara
what told u to marry usher what gave u the idea
11:27PM 06/26/08 MZ.BRYAN
NO DATS NOT IT ..IT;S DAT EVERYBODY KNOWS DAT YALL AINT DA COUPLE AND U KNO IT IAM NOT DOWNIN U OR NOTHIN BUT TAMEKA B DA WOMEN DAT U SAY U IS AND LEAVE USHER YALL DNT BELONG TOGEHTER IT'S (CHILLI&USHER) NOT (TAMEKA &USHER) U GOT MOST OF USHER FANS HATIN HIM CAUSE IF YOU ....OMG
9:11PM 06/22/08 monica
a hot mess, aint nobody hating on her, besides who would wanna hate on that man, i think usher could have done way better, soon as he found out that she had kids or watever, he should've backed off adn just been her friend, i think he should have found someone thats young looking, no kids, never been married, has a great personality, and likes to have fun, well, seems like usher has his work cut out for him
9:06PM 06/18/08 ladyluvsmemphis
ok first of all tameka im rican n to me it dont have to do nothin wit race ok cus there's alot of black girls that r cute so wat da hell u talkin bout cus wit dat face dat u got it dont matter wat color u r u still would be UGLY! n also lets see if da marriage wit u n usher lasts he too young for u it looks like if he luv like u say dat he do den dats good for u guys n i hope dat u aint using him for his money to support u n ur other kids dat aint his but besides dat good luck wit u guys
8:07PM 06/13/08 Big G
Man she ugly my girl far hotter, and i thot usher had game. Thts years of good albums down the drain u heard his new crap, It aint all that. Nigga get ur act together.
2:14PM 06/12/08 mr chocolate vanilla swirl
SHE IS TORN UP FROM THE FLOOR UP! DAMN BEING THAT UGLY SHOULD BE OUTLAWED!!!! AAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!
10:35AM 06/10/08 Tisha
MOST OF YOU STINKING WOMEN WHO ARE CALLING USHERS WIFE UGLY ARE VERY UGLY YOURSELVES. SOME OF YOU THINK BECAUSE YOU ARE DARK AND BEEN TOLD THAT YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL THINK THAT YOU ARE GOD'S GIFT. I HATE WOMEN LIKE YOU WHO THINKS YOU ARE PRETTIER THAN OTHER BLACK WOMEN. STUPID STUPID BLACK WOMEN!
10:29AM 06/10/08 maria
Some of you women need help. I can't believe how you can talk and humiliate Usher's wife and call her all kinds of ugly. I bet most of you are very ugly yourselves let alone BITTER! Yall need to take a good look at yourselves and find out why you are still single.
0:05AM 06/06/08 sage
i think its absloutly stupid she pull the race card and say people dont like her because shes black
6:11PM 06/05/08 Michelle
To all the people hating on Usher and his Wife, for him to not look at u type of people and go to her it simply means she has sumfink u DON'T!! So go check wat u lack n mind ur business coz when u love sumone, u dnt love them 4 how ther look or ther shape, u love them 4 who ther r inside. And i fink she's alrite, at d end of day everyones beautiful in ther own way. God created everyone in his own image remember that ppl. Stay Blessed xxx
0:33PM 06/05/08 The Truth
Whoa stop the nonsense. All that she is gettin talked about because she is black. No SHE IS UGLY. Chili is black and is off the chain. No one talked about her. So call her what she is. HOT MESS
6:27PM 06/04/08 diamondlife
I believe that she went to a root worker and had some juju put on usher. I've seen it before many times.
4:24PM 06/04/08 weather
I just would like to say if Tameka set up Usher she will get hers,if not I hope he's happy.
10:12AM 06/04/08 Coco
I agree with what she says I'm a dark female and it’s like all I hear is that you’re pretty to be dark. I feel like as a black women we are not portrait as being beautiful on TV as much as white and Hispanic and all other they always have us fat or just not that good looking and that’s why we are less desired and the last to get married I'm glad he went with his heart it shows his a good man.
10:11AM 06/04/08 Coco
I agree with what she says I'm a dark female and its like all I hear is that your pretty to be dark. I feel like as a black women we are not portart as being beautiful on TV as mush as white and hispanic and all other they always have us fat or just not that good looking and thats why we are less desired and the last to get married I'm glad he went with his heart it shows his a good man.
11:30PM 06/03/08 THE OWTEST QUE U KNEW
THIS IS WHY BLACK PEOPLE WILL NEVER GET AHEAD IN LIFE BECAUSE OF STUPID RETARDED ILLITIRATE, SUPERFICIAL JEALOUS PEOPLE LIKE YOU...USHER'S WIFE IS PRETTY...BESIDES DO YOU STUPID PEOPLE THINK P;EOPLE GET MARRIED FOR KIDS NOWADAYS GET REAL HE MUST LOVE HER...DO YO THING BRUH, BLACK LOVE IS BEAUTIFUL...ROO TO THE OWT QUES
2:42PM 06/03/08 901
I think they look beautiful together.I love the fact that he stands up for his wife and child if I may say so myself that's what love is all about, so GO girl and let these haters hate.
1:53PM 06/03/08 biggest and the baddest
so what if she look like a man i bet she look better than any of yall hate on that tricks.
1:52PM 06/03/08 biggest and the baddest
she out makin her money i bet all yall doin is just sittin on the couch tryin to find somebody else to hate on.
1:45PM 06/03/08 biggest and the baddest
Whatever Ithink all yall wrong if thats who he love the let it be cuz yall just haters hatin on usher wife he don't need no DNA test thats his baby so gone with that hatin junk yall just mad cuz yall can't get usher!!!!!!!!!!
4:02PM 06/02/08 sexy t
hell she need to shut up and stop crying im dark and big and still sexy as hell she knew being with usher she would have the spot light on her suck it up and enjoy that sexy man that you making look older...lol...
9:57AM 06/02/08 cute-princess89
MANEKA(watever ur name is) WATEVER TRICK u is so DAMN UGLY period... USHER jus married u b/c u is his BABY MAMA stupid bitch DONT NOBODY LIKE U & its not b/c u is(an ugly ass) black woman but b/c u think u all dat b/c u brain washed USHER wit ur stupid ass lines u spoke 2 him & by da WAY U DO LOOK LIKE A MAN lol! an u is not an independent woman b/c u left ur OTHERS KIDS wit ur EX- u is really stupid BITCH!!! BUT 2 u USHER i'm still ur # 1 fan! I LOVE YOU!! PLEASE next time think twice...UR 1 & ONLY GURL!BYE!
1:08AM 06/02/08 HaTeRs
I ThInK MoSt YaLL UgLy..!!!!!! FuCk YaLL GiT A JoB n U BlAcK WoMaN R HaTeRs So It WaTeVeR..HoEs N Err ThInG..YaLL BlAmE OThErS Fo YaLLs BuLL N PrOmBlEs..YeS I'M BlAcK BiiTcHs.. I WaS BoRn In WeSt AfRiCa..LooK It Up..N GoD MaDe WhO ShE Is..Ur NoBoDy !!!
1:05AM 06/02/08 HaTeRs
U GuYs R Juss A BuNcH Of HaTertS..WhY WaStE Ur TyMe TaLkIn BoUt SoMe1 U DoNt EvEN KnO??? U MaD CaUsE ShE GoT WaT U WiSh U HaD..MoNeY..LooKs N ErrThInG!!!!!!!! GiT A LiFE!!!
1:03AM 06/02/08 Princess V
Who the hell do yall think yall is?? your NOT god to be judginh other people!!! all of you just need to git a life..i'm only 15 and you grown flks talk so much shiit.. its easy to point the finger at some one, but fuck when it comes down to you u dont like it, ushers happy..okay thats his life, and i think black is sexy so fuck all the haters
1:03AM 06/02/08 Princess V
Who the hell do yall think yall is?? your NOT god to be judginh other people!!! all of you just need to git a life..i'm only 15 and you grown flks talk so much shiit.. its easy to point the finger at some one, but fuck when it comes down to you u dont like it, ushers happy..okay thats his life, and i think black is sexy so fuck all the haters
8:16PM 06/01/08 page
I HONESTLY DONT THINK SHE IS PRETTY AND I THINK ITS STUPID 2 SAY ITS BECUSE SHE IS BLACK BECUSE IM A BLACK GIRL AND IM BEAUTFUL AND THERE ARE OTHER PRETTY BLACK GIRLS ITS JUST SHE IS UGLY
4:16PM 06/01/08 Kecia
Ima say this....I've been in love with Usher since the very beginning of his career! When my man was trying to work it out wit a group. I'm happy that he's met a woman that he decided to spend the rest of his life with! But she's wrong...it has absolutly nothing to do with race! She looks....Well I won't disrespect his wife! But he should try to patch up things with his mom if he haven't done so already! She is your mother!!!
8:01PM 05/31/08 nene
I LUV USHER TO DEATH!!!!! ALWAYS WAS AND WILL BE A FAN FOR LIFE. SEEIN HIM HAPPY IS ALL THAT REALLY MATTERS TO ME AND I SAY IF THE MAN IS HAPPY PPL LET HIM BE... AS FANS OFCOURSE WE WANNA SEE HIM WITH A SEXY ASS LADY AT HIS SIDE OR MAYBE EVEN SINGLE BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY IT ISN'T WHAT WE WANT ITS WHAT HE WANTS AND HOW HE FEELS AND IF HE LOVES THE WOMAN BEAUTIFUL IN OUR EYES OR NOT I STAND FIRMLY BY HIM. I'M A DARK BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AND I'M HAPPY HE DIDN'T GO HISPANIC OR MIX I'M HAPPY HE CHOSE A BLACK WOMAN TO SHARE IN HIS LUV AND I'M NOT GONNA BE FONY HE COULD HAVE DONE WAYYYYYY BETTER THAN HER BUT USHER BOO I LOVE U AND I'M HAPPY AS LONG AS U'RE HAPPY LET THE MAN BE DAMN!!!!
11:22PM 05/30/08 Noneyabusiness
Who fucking cares bout these losers, their both ugly and deserve each other. Usher knows he's dating his mom and impregnanted his mom, so now him and his new mom are just mad! But two ugly people make a cute kid! lmfao
9:40PM 05/30/08 aj
but really...she's just ugly, nothing wrong with him loving her...it's not like she married me but still... just because people say someone's ugly doesn't mean they're jealous and in her case....no thanks.
1:37PM 05/30/08 oh please!
I am black and one of those darker girls that some of you speak of. The girl is horrible looking. she looks way older than him. She also looks like a man. without the makeup and weave i dont know how he could bear to look at her. she has tried the oldest trick in the book-getting pregnant. without that she would certainly not have been his wife. and if i were Usher's mother, i would fly through the roof when he brought ms. fugly home. you cant blame her for not liking her, one has to be concerned about where their grand babies come from.
11:55AM 05/30/08 astars
It is not the fact of her being a black girl. there are plenty of attractive black females she just so happens not to be one of them. I dont care for her b/c from one mom to another where are her other kids? why jump from marriage to marriage. The things you do make you look ugly and you can be the prettiest person on the outside. I think she put that HOOBAH DUST on him he lost his mind and got her pregant and since he seems like a standup dude married her for good measure but coe on he can have anyone and he picks a 40 something old married manyly looking woman with 3 other kids to make MRS USHER something just aint right! it has nothing to do with the color of her skin but the content of her character.
8:56AM 05/30/08 Micaiah
I don't think she's "ugly" so to speak. She just looks aged, hard. She looks very old. And that's the problem. Usher is young, sexy, and what every young woman wants. His fan base is ranges probably between the ages of 12-30. Anyone over that really isn't listening to Usher. (Or shouldn't be anyway) My mother is 44 and I'm 24. And she is not listening to anything I'm listening to. So for someone around that age to think of marrying him is just shameful. And she already has a barage of Children so shes going to burden him down with her life long responsibilities. I think for the most part, people are annoyed and feels sorry for Usher. I know I am.
6:03AM 05/29/08 Evelyn
It's so sad to see fans of Usher talk about his wife. They should have respect for him AND his wife. It just makes everything not only hard for Tameka but harder for Usher too...So just give them a BREAK!
6:36PM 05/28/08 Cherie
Of course she's angry, look at how many people are bashing her just on this page alone! But as long as Usher finds her beautiful, no one elses opinion really matters anyway.
5:15PM 05/27/08 UCantBeSerious
Alek Wek/ Lauren Hill/ India Arie/ Gabriel Union (dark red bone)/ Serena Williams/ Kellie Williams/ Kelly Rowland/ Angela Bassett/ IS THAT EASIER TO READ NOW SMUGGLY?
5:13PM 05/27/08 UCantBeSerious
Alek Wek Lauren Hill India Arie Gabriel Union (dark red bone) Serena Williams Kellie Williams Kelly Rowland Angela Bassett Are just to name a few...there are far far more beautiful DARK skinned black women unfortunantly I dont think Usher's wife is one of them. She isnt "ugly" by any stretch of the imagination but in almost every photo I see of her, she does look like a damn man in make up.But hey, if he likes it-I love it. He love her manly looking ass & thats all that matters here...but I can voice my opinion.
4:57PM 05/27/08 UCantBeSerious
Ummmm...dark skinned women are beautiful first of all but Ushers wife's issue IS NOT her skin color, its the fact that she looks like a man in the face, thats all. She is very drag-queen'ish looking.
3:43PM 05/24/08 simone
OH my,a bunch of haters! So what if Usher married someone that does not measure up to societies standard, and Tameka is right black women just like to hate. Truth is if she was white or another race, people would have been upset because he married outside the race. At the end of the day is who makes you happy regardless of how they look on the outside. HATERS!!!!
1:55PM 05/19/08 Sian
I'm happy for you Usher i just recently got engaged to a model and i know people look at me the same way ''why is he with her...........''but it's all about what makes you happy and I'm happy if your happy Usher me and you both no that all the hater on this site are LONELY OR SINGLE OR UNHAPPY AND wish they won your heart.........no one is thinking about the joy this women has brought in to Usher life. God bless you both*****
11:50PM 05/12/08 L.C
That hoe is ugly! Not cause she 's black because i am black but i look 3,000 times better than her! she looks like "Hello I Just had Usher he is my son but i married him" Seriously folks its not a mixed issue! Beyonce is black and she ain Puerto Rican
4:44AM 05/08/08 GHS
Boy, Some of you are angry, angry, angry. Writing a bloody novel. Please! It's none of our business!
0:57PM 05/07/08 big ups
I am true hopeless romantic... if i could talk to user and his new wife i would say... Congradulations!!! it is so hard to find true love and you are trully blessed that you have...oh and she is not ugly to me she looks a little older but usher likes so i love it
11:04AM 05/07/08 Sharonda
Usher I'm a big fan of yours i would love to meet you one day.
5:38PM 05/02/08 SOJ
I dont think that she is bitter at all, nor does she have low self esteem or insecure but when you are constantly in the media all they do is talk about her...what do you expect...All if these jealous girl and females (expecially us) are against each other....Stop hating and quit trying to make people hate themselves.
9:04AM 04/22/08 tiffany
To all the haters hahaha you guys are so ridiculous do u think usher or his wife give a damn about what any of you have to say no not at all your comment on here won't be the one that changes his mind to make him leave this woman so what she older than him,so what she has other kids from a previous marriage,and so what u guys don't think she is beautiful enough. You guys are so quick to judge and u don't even know the situtation so what her kids are with their father and not her we don't know what is going on in there personal lives we are listening to rumors and we all know where listening to rumors get u. If u are a true Usher fan and love usher for his talent and music and all the joy he has brought us for years than congratulate him on finding happiness focus on the positive instead of the negative. If i could talk to usher and his new wifey i would say congrats on your marriage and new baby boy and who cares what people say or think u guys do u and love each other no matter what and feel good Tameka that so many women are jealous of u that they would take time out of their "busy" lives to right about u that would make me feel good u should worry when u are not being talked about, and u know what out of all the women in the world Usher could have married and had his first born child with he choose u boo boo so yeah keep your head up and keep smiling for your haters or should i say fans. I love u guys!!
0:45AM 04/17/08 Lateisha
First off Tameka. You should ever maniuplate a man into marrying your ugly ass especialy a man as fine as Usher. He has everything ging for him and had it going before he married you. The girl in is vdeo is one of many that has been in his previous videos. Don't hate bitch Congragulate
11:11AM 04/16/08 Jessica
Usher's wife is not ugly.u all are just jealous because u cant be like her.but too bad he is married and u all better get the message into ur thick stupid skulls and stop hating.He is happily married, and has a cute baby boy so why cant u just be happy for him.u bitches better keep ur stupid mouth shut and let them be ok. Tameka u are beautiful and u are what usher wants so dont let dem get to u.
6:46AM 04/14/08 Madia Sanchez
Ugh, no. If u were Hispanic or Latina u would still be ugly. U'd have the same face and body just different skin tone. But I guess there's somebody for everybody.
11:27PM 04/13/08 sadie
I must say she is not pretty at all and yes obviously she has something that usher is attracted too (the voodoo doll in her closet) lol, I wish usher the best of luck i believe she should have been humble and not made those comments because it shows how controlling and jealous she is!!!
10:34AM 04/10/08 crimson
I love USHER and I believe when you marry someone that someone has to be for you.With that said his wife DOES look like a man.Have you ever noticed the way he looks at Beyonce on her video?If Jay and her wasn't together I believe her and Usher would make a great couple.I hav ve never seen a picture where he looks at his wife like that. No disrespect it's just she's toooo jealous and that makes you ugly.
7:27AM 04/10/08 ashley
Well all I have to say it that she is a tad bit unattractive, and I believe the way she acts in the public is what makes her seem even more unattractive. Obviously Usher loves her for some reason, maybe if she expresses herself in public the way she does in private with him then the public might not be as harsh with her. Also the whole thing about "us black women not liking ourselves" is out of line. I am a black woman and I love myself more and more everyday. Also you being "ugly" is not the issue, there are stars "More Famous" than Usher who have "not so pretty wives", but those women are not being crucified like you because they are not always acting a damn fool and making presumptuous comments as the one you made in that magazine. So I hope you can learn that it is your attitude that upsets his fans so they just take the fact that you are "Not easy on the eyes" and dog you in public the same way dog yourself with that mouth. Just my opinion....but I hope your marriage last even though it might not because of how it started, but you can't turn back the hands of time so just live your life and be happy and also stop being so defense it does not help your situation, because it does not seem like what you are saying is sincere.
5:37AM 04/10/08 porche
ALSO IF JAY Z AND BEYONCE GOT MARRIED , THEN HE SHOULD START REPRESENTING HER, CAUSE MY HUSBAND DOES WITH RING AND ALL, TELLS EVERYONE HE LOVES ME.
5:35AM 04/10/08 porche
SHE IS VERY UGLY AND KNOWS IT. ON TMZ RIGHT NOW SHE IS WITH USHER AND THE BABY, BUT ITS A SHAME THAT SHE DONT HAVE HER OTHER KIDS.THEY WILL SPEAKE OUT WHEN THEY GET OLDER, JUST WAIT
5:22PM 04/06/08 amy
Obviously they didn't get together the right way-that's why they're constantly trying to prove themselves. but take it from whitney houston she will make a fool out of you in the end. no she's not all that attractive but she came in this relationship with no responsibilities and now you're father of 4 at before age 30.that's sad. on chili's stand point she's not all that either (with them old baby hairs) it didn't work out so that's the end of that story. i just think he could've did better rather she'd be black or blue.
9:41PM 03/30/08 shante
I stand fully by her comment. I believe that she is not afraid to speak her mind, and if the makes her a bitch so be it. It is better to stand for something than to be a coward and stand for nothing. No, she is not the prettiest thing out there but she isn't ugly either. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You people need to realize that the way people look is not everything in a relationship, there is so much more to it than that. Look for how they treat you and how that make you feel when you are around them. Personallity, ambitions, Heart.The most beautiful person could become the worst looking beast you have ever seen in a matter of seconds suppose an accident occured.
7:42AM 03/28/08 luz
I DONT LIKE THAT BITCH... SHE IS UGLY AND I HATE HER BECAUSE USHER IS MINE BUT HE DONT KNOW IT YET...........
7:09AM 03/28/08 nikki d
hahaha... that groupie needs to get over herself... she'd still be single if it wasn't for the fact she got pregnant.. i'm sure it wasn't "planned" not by usher at least... it's not about her being black it's about here being just plain unattractive... there are stars out there with beautiful black wives she just aint one of them... lmao
0:42PM 03/27/08 Lynn
Please she knows it has nothing to do with race. There are plenty of famous black men with beautiful respectful black women and nobody jumps on them. She has a track record of being sheisty and the way she is carrying out things and coming across to the public makes her look bad. What type of woman would leave her husband and 3 children. That is a sign of bad character right there if you ask me. Usher has them dollars thats what she wants and he stuck with her ass forever now cause he got that baby which I am sure she planned nicely also.
8:13AM 03/27/08 angela mcgill
And she also no she bust a hole in the condom to get pregnant!! That Aguly hood rat been sitting in the cut plotting to hook him!! Stylist my butt, She a trick Hoe!! And came up!! Usher should have just stayed with Chilli for all that!!!!
8:09AM 03/27/08 angela mcgill
I have seen plenty pretty black woman and she is not one of them. I am so mad mad mad usher married this aguly man of lady. Why don't she go take care of the team of of kids she already has. And for that Usher you lost alot of your "fan Base", all the ladys in the world fantasize of a chance to be with you and Blackness ruined it!! So you CD will be Bought Boot Leg from now on, for that one Buddy!!!
2:20PM 03/20/08 amileaa
What does the color of your skin got to with anything? You can blue and still be ugly, if you're ugly, you're ugly!!! FAC E IT and BE A GROWN WOMEN ABOUT IT!!!!! Everyone is going to think and say what they want to about you, that's how this world works.... You can't STOP everyone from it!
2:16PM 03/20/08 trublusnu
It's so funny how she can sit here and speak for black women! !! Because the public is giving you their opinions, it shouldn't matter to you as long as you are confident with yourself!!! This is one of the things that was bound to happen being the public eyes. What did you expect? Stardom like USHER? Love is so much more deeper than looks, whether society or his mom except you into HIS family or not, as long as he loves you for who you are, that's all that you should be worried about!
4:43PM 03/17/08 narcisus
u know you are ugly. and not a size two. but thats you. you cant help it. so own it and do you. Even though you old and a bit hideous. i am black and i dont hate my beautiful self. ugly old lady.
2:33PM 03/16/08 je je
usher baby all i get to say is come find me baby that what you got it's not working
8:56AM 03/13/08 Michelle
No I personally think that it doesn't matter about what color you are it is what inside that counts.But I think Usher made a good choice on marrying you!!
7:00PM 03/05/08 lilma
i doubt if the marriage will last anyway she is reportedly telling usher what to do and what not to do because she is scared that he will cheat on her with a groupie. I heard he cancelled two major offers because of her. He will get tired of her eventually.
6:41PM 03/03/08 Rhonda
Yes, she is just ugly, black isn't the issue LMAO, Ugly chicks always try generalize.
9:47AM 02/26/08 Quin
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5:50AM 02/26/08 Tamika
You are ulgy usher should had a baby by a woman that will do him good he don't need to be cookin 4 yo fat dirty black azz bitch do somethung 4 yo self usher gone be mine bitch
3:29PM 02/23/08 h0un
I can't believe usher married a man!!!
8:55PM 02/22/08 whatslov got to do with it
i married a girl 20 yrs older than me.. she is very beautiful inside and especially attractive(that is what got my attention anyway)..later i learned she was 20yrs older. but i was smittened. she was classy, descent couldnt tell she was even my age(38yrs).married for 10yrs this March, still love her profusely,she has a lot of integrity and sex appeal at the same time. best thing i ever did..
8:49PM 02/22/08 ididit
It doesnt matter whether she is older or younger..A real man goes for what he wants and not for what you want..I have been around along time , anytime a real man see something he wants he goes after it.. despite his friends. she must be of value to him because he married her ..no matter what others say..Love is very powerful ..REAL LOVE and very rewarding.. .
0:47PM 02/18/08 cookie
BLACK LOVE IS WHAT IT IS. THE REASON YOU FEEL THAT WAY IS BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID WAS WRONG.AND USHER KNOWS THAT HE LOVES CHILLI. IF CHILLI WOULD HAVE TOOK USHER BACK. USHER AND U WOULD STILL BE JUST FRIENDS. U AND YOUR HUSBAND WOULD HAVE WORK THINGS OUT.AND USHER YOUR WIFE MAY NOT LIKE YOUR MOTHER. BUT SHE MUST RESPECT HER, SHE IS THE WOMAN THAT GAVE LIFE TO U. JUST BE THE BEST PARENT'S IN THE WORLD. AND USHER WHAT ABOUT TRON HE STILL LOVE'S U 2. YALL TAKE CARE AND GOD BLESS YOU.
1:40AM 02/17/08 v7mben0zem
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11:19PM 02/08/08 yevette
YOU DONT HAVE NOTHING ON CHILI. THE TRUTH HURTS.
11:17PM 02/08/08 yevette
what the hell is this she man talking about? If you were mixed or hispanic you will still be one ugly old itch (female dog). you look like a transvesdyke. Usher check out the adams apple.
5:30PM 02/04/08 knorth
whatever girl he loves you for you cuz i sry but he could better u got kids with different fathers and soo you kno he loves u and ur kids congrates on your baby boy i bet hes beautiful just like the both you but i still think he should be wit me lol but im happy for the both of you!!!!!
9:09AM 01/31/08 Berenice
I have to say that im on of man fans of Usher that has critized his wife. Im sorry iny opinion she doesnt not fit the standard , even se said it...if she didnt care she woudnt even be sayin such thing. But the thing that matters the most is not that we (the fans) think of her, the thing that matters isthat she makes him happy and regardless of what we think of her, every fan loves to see USHER happy. Yea she doesnt fit the standard for him but im happy because he is happy
11:46AM 01/28/08 beautiful dark womn
I'm a beautiful black woman and I definitely don't hate myself. CHILI was a beautiful blac woman and we ALL know Usher kicked himself after losing her and still is.
11:43AM 01/28/08 humble
WHO IS TAMEKA FOSTER? lol and for the couple of people who are knocking this girl for having children previously and how she is no good because of that? CHeck YUhself!
8:01PM 01/11/08 sam
I love my skin, body, ass and hips, but one thing I dont understand is. Why usher did not introduce you to the world a long time ago. he was proud to be with chilli, and he kept you a secert until. You became pregant, now if any one should be mad it should be you. for being stupid. for not loving your self at first. you are more then usher wife, baby mother, I would assume, you do have other kids, when has he ever introduced you to the world. keep being a secert and live life. keep making babies, what are you going to do when a young lady his age comes by and dose the same thing you are doing, be proud of who you are. I am a product of my mother and father not my husband, tell your self that every day.
10:36AM 01/06/08 Antwann j.
She is ugly. Its not about her complextion. There are many beautiful black women out there. I dnt even like mixed girls. Im a black man that loves REAL SISTAHS.My girlfriend is a beautiful black woman. She looks like Gabrielle Union. If usher was wit Gabrielle union do u think anyone would question why. NO BECAUSE SHE IS A BEAUTIFUL BLACK WOMAN.
10:23AM 01/06/08 Mike
She is ugly. That woman does have the big head about herself cause she is wit usher. How he gonna let a bitch come between his mom. The girl already been knocked up 3 times. She probably got no walls but its good to usher. Alot of men probably been up in dat and he just another number added to the list. I really dont think its gonna last they just married for the moment. And its not because she is black. Chilli was pretty and black. I dont understand him. How he's gonna do chilli wrong and he didnt marry her. That boy is messed up. And he is a scientologist. Bra turned his back on God.
11:47PM 01/05/08 ashly
By NO Means do i believe anyone to jealous of Tameka Foster!... The point is...She decieved Usher's mother just to get close to him... In leau of that, she used her divorce and probably made up shit just so he could feel sorry for her. Furthermor any couple that has to justify their relationship as much as they have done publicly shouldn't be together anyway...So what he knocked her ass up... That's all she wanted from thE get go... I can only imagine what a typical "Girlfriend" conversaton is like with Tameka Foster...She's only a media Scape Goat for Usher...The more they keep forcing it to last the sooner it will be doomed... If the love is true then they'll shut he hell up and laugh it off like J n Bey... No one can define what is real and unreal when it comes to love... but we can define what is natural and fake... Fake+Foster= "F"- FAILURE!!!
0:50PM 01/05/08 nisha
Yeah she is ugly and that attitude makes her look worst. Damn if you ugly as hell atleast let the world think you are nice with a wonderful personality so we could have some idea of why he chose you.
9:48AM 01/05/08 KC
Poor Usher....he spent all this time working hard to stay fit, not going around having babies....only to find some single mother, who's been knocked up and loosened up by 2 guys, who between them she has 3 children and now she has an unsightly pouch for a tummy. What ever happened to single eligible bachelors finding a beautiful single girl, dark or light, that is his and his only and he doesn't have to share her with some other guy and her kids. We are witnessing a severe decline in the traditional American Family. I for one thought men did not want ready made familys.
3:08AM 01/02/08 Deborah
Tameka Foster has it so right with her comments on black people hating on one another. It is so damn obvious he worships the ground she walks on. She is a lucky woman to find a man like that, he did not go and marry a white woman which a lot of black artistes do. I think they will be very happy together, he obviously likes grown up women, not girls. It often happens when boys are brought up by just their mother. She did a really good job on him
11:15AM 01/01/08 PDwag
Maybe she's ugly but its not being pretty that makes a beautifull wife. Usher is obviously much matured than we expect, we expect him to marry a model who will divorce him and keeps his money.
8:32PM 12/29/07 tete
YES HER ASS IS VERY UGLY AND USHER CAN DO HELL OF ALOT BETTER THAN THAT MUDDUCK
1:15PM 12/29/07 mf
um....it takes balls to make a race thing out of ugly. yes..i said BALLS.
0:07PM 12/29/07 TEE
THERE ARE TONS OF PRETTY DRK SKINNED WOMEN, BUT THIS WOMAN IS JUST PLAIN UGLY!!!!! NOTHING TO DO WITH SKIN COLOR
5:50AM 12/29/07 me
I'm so fucking tired of hearing that shit! "If I weren't black..." that's so ridiculous and SO old! I'm tired of any race saying if they were otherwise people would like them more. No, if someone doesn't like you it's because of how YOU are as a person. And I'm WHITE and I have no problem, I'm not mixed, asian, or hispanic and I am damn proud to be a WHITE GIRL! People need to quit being so damn insecure, quit making excuses too cause they don't work, if multiple people dislike you that has something to do with you other than the color of your skin!
6:49PM 12/28/07 secret
i think she is so ugly .. and she is not the rite person for usher...
8:59PM 12/18/07 latoya
this relationship will not stand the test of time because he's actually mine
0:35AM 12/16/07 miami
She just want him for his money. He's to blind to see it. She was already married to some one else and pregnent by Usher. They all are going to hell.
4:06PM 12/11/07 Toyia
Many blacks do hate themselves. I've had people make fune of tme for various reasons. U would think that my feelings would be hurt, but I end up feeling sorry for those blacks. Abuse, sex, children...the facts are out there for only God to judge. Who knows what kind of self-hating, child-molesting, baby-making, uneducated so-and-sos are posting to this site! My judgment lies in that I am not too fond of uneducated people (not necessarily a College degree). But I know that I as well as others are simply imperfect. It's not your business who this man marries. She's richer than all of you so don't be jealous. Ur just mad b/c Usher didn't marry u. Maybe he's just trying to keep it real.
9:27AM 12/10/07 Dede
Maybe some bangs would help cause the forhead no five head needs to be hidden. And a make over as well. Cuase she is no Chilli, Hell shes not even cute as me and I am a beautiful "Black women". As far as her not having her other kids as a mother of 2 I had my kids at 16 and they have NEVER left my side regardless of what trials I have gone threw I am now 31. To me she has none of my respect!
8:38AM 12/10/07 Suznane_Tafoya
She is ugly...and that is just pure ignorance to say if you were another race that it would be different, because you would be ugly if you were white, hispanic, asian...etc.... She is plain out UGLY....and she looks like a man!!!!
5:22PM 12/09/07 shar
first, maneka or tameka, be specific and name those black women who do not like themselves. I am very much a black woman and is very much in love with who and whose I am. As a black woman, to me, you crossed the line when you left your other childrn with their father. A real black woman would not have done that. Simply because we are born nurturers. You, obviously was thinking about self. Now, you have a baby for someone else. So is it that your other children were not loved because they father could not provide you and I mean you, with your need for greed. What is the real reason? Put yourself in their place. In their hearts they must realize they are not important enough for you to take care of them. Step up and be a real woman. Bring your kids with you and Usher or can't you? I do not and wished you were not a real black woman for those kids sake. Keep the black woman thoughts out of your mouth because a real woman would have had him (Usher) do the right by CHilli.
3:19AM 12/06/07 emary
well, why does it always to be a black or white situation? why dont we all love each other equally and learn from our father god.
9:45PM 12/05/07 Liz
Is Beyonce mixed? Just curious? Because both her parents look black to me. And what about Iman is she fully black? Is every light skinned black women not fully black. I'd really like to know. I've seen really dark black women that were beautiful. I don't get her issue..Black men only like mixed raced women???
0:29PM 12/05/07 YES I SAID IT
SHE STILL DOES AND WILL ALWAYS LOOK LIKE A MAN AND I HOPE USHER GETS A DNA TEST FOR THAT BABY, WHICH I BET IS BY HER EX-HUBBY, BUT KNOWING USHER’S DUMB AND NIEVE ASS HE WILL BELIEVE THE BABY IS HIS, JUST BECUZ MANEKA SAID IT………
9:51PM 12/04/07 luv myself
first of all u sound damn stupid i am a dark skin woman and i luv it when men like denzel get famous and still look at us black women as beautiful and would still date and marry us unlike majority of these famous men who think black women r beneath them and marry women of different colors so dont put me in that catagory with u people dont like u bcuz usher could have did so much better than u ur old and yes u look like a man face the facts and u have a very ready made family and u seem very controlling thats y people dont like u it has nothing 2do with u being black but like u said u r who he love i cant c y what do u have going for urself nothing oh and lets not forget stupid and iggnorant for making a statement like that cuz i luv myself
8:36PM 12/04/07 hermi
I agree with her and I'm a white girl. Not being "mixed," "Asian," or otherwise "exotic" can really beat up your self esteem.
1:56PM 12/04/07 deedee
WELL U IS UGLY BITCH
11:35AM 12/04/07 iamwhoiam
I too wonder if she has ever looked in the mirror? She looks like a 45 y/o drag queen. She is horrible looking, I would hate to see her w/o her makeup on! OMG that would be a scary sight. No it isn't because you are black it is because you are just plain ol' fugly!!!!
7:38AM 12/04/07 nycdoll
Tameka told the truth!!! If Usher had married a white, latina, or bi-racial woman...most black women would turn on him instantly. Tameka is speaking the truth!!!
7:17AM 12/04/07 heidi
They left some details of their story on the forum of interracialfriends.com, where have many african american singles.
7:06AM 12/04/07 kittah
its not just black hating black. You're not cool if your white either. Gotta b latina or mixed to b cool n-ee more. Y can't people just leave her alone. She's right, this is who he loves, so back off.
7:00AM 12/04/07 noname
I think the public is put off by her because of all the trash stories of her manipulating him to marry by getting knocked up, his mother's contempt for her, etc. She is right about being treated better if she was asthetically appealing to the public. We all suffer that it some respect. That is our society. Just ask a pretty girl who has gained 30 lbs. and you will see she gets treated more poorly than when she was thin.
4:26AM 12/04/07 stefystef
Usher's mother, uh I mean wife, is a silly bitch. I think she thought she would get all this respect and envy from woman fans of Usher because she was able to trap him into marriage. Well, as a black woman, not only am I NOT jealous of her, she isn't even on my radar...or the radar of any black woman. Usher's fans thought he would marry that girl from TLC or at least someone younger and more fun. Instead Usher married his mom.
1:10AM 12/04/07 munkeynttz
yeag girl..you foolin yourself. you is and will be ugly. you just gotta be sittin on a caampfire, cause you got Ursher stuuuck.
10:03PM 12/03/07 eww
has she seen her face????/ she's hideous. looks uglier than a man. And there is nothing she can do about it so stop bitching and blaming people who are telling the truth. If she were any shades lighter with that mug, bitch would still be ugly, your face can be white , purple or orange and you still ugly as a dog. Beat it Maneka, just beat it.
9:13PM 12/03/07 gevo
I take it PMS is back. Mooooooooooo goes the cow !!!
7:24PM 12/03/07 mick
Wow, she's not very complimentary towards her own race saying black woman hate her because she's a black woman and that if she was hispanic or mixed then hispanic or mixed woman would find her sexy. I don't hate her but she does look more like she's about 46 years old then the age she is and she's not exactly gorgeous. I think Usher's fans just think he could have found someone more his own age and beautiful but obviously to him she is so hope they'll be happy.
7:17PM 12/03/07 just me
I think she's physically very attractive.
6:38PM 12/03/07 JVangelgirl
I don't think she ugly at all. But it just she looks old enough to be his mom....
5:52PM 12/03/07 anonymous
She sounds like she has serious self esteem issues, but I guess I don't blame her with all of the criticisms she gets. Good luck to them both and I hope she can get past all of the negativity.
5:20PM 12/03/07 Tasha
She has been really dogged out on other websites, probably because she is older with kids from her 1st hubby. That's why she is bitter. But if Usher is happy, I'm happy for him.
5:01PM 12/03/07 bluegrl
I agree with her. And she's not bitter, she just honestly expressing how she feels. I'm a darker girl and I know what it's like to feel less than atractive based on society's standards. And it's cool if you really thinks she's ugly. But, there are people out there who think that she's ugly based only on the color of her skin and the size of waist. It's just a fact of life for some women.