Hollyscoop talked with two particular celebs who have been married a long time—Terry Crews and Justine Simmons (Russell Simmons’ wife)—who both think Bullock should go back to Jesse James! Here are their points of view:
Terry Cruz: “First of all my wife and I have been married 20 years and know not to let anyone get in the way of our relationship, even the media. Whatever people say, it tends to influence all that stuff for them to be together. The first thing a marriage needs to survive is forgiveness. Whether it’s leaving the cap off the toothpaste or something crazy like he is being alleged to do. You are talking about forgiveness all the way down that is the way it has to work or else it is not going to work.
"I would encourage them to forgive each other for whatever it was, just work it out. I’m praying for them, I don’t like to see people break up. My family and I pray for those especially in the business to stay together.”
Justine had a similar viewpoint: “I think if you treat your marriage like your business or career there is no way you can go wrong. Everyone is concentrating so hard on their career, which I understand because they want to make money but when you put that first over your marriage or children it is unbalanced. We put our family first.”
She thinks Sandra, whether she takes him back or not, needs to forgive Jesse for his affairs. She added, “If she can do that, a lot of women take you back but you will live through hell but if this is his first time why not. Hopefully he learned, sometimes you have to lose something to know how precious it is. If this is his second time then he may have an issue a problem. She should not feel any type of way. She is beautiful.”
Many people would disagree with these two comments. This comes just hours after we’ve learned Sandra is indeed looking into filing for divorce from her husband. What do you think? Should she do it?