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Psycologists Slam Jacksons for Letting Paris Speak at Memorial

July 08, 2009
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 Bridget Daly

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Paris Jackson’s 20 second statement at her father’s memorial yesterday was one of the most memorable moments of the event. In the next few years, people will still likely be talking about her tearful goodbye to her father Michael Jackson.

But child psychologists have come forward to express their disagreement with young Paris taking the stage, saying the sudden media attention could be “potentially very traumatic.”

It was common knowledge that Michael tried as best he could to shield his three children from the paparazzi, even having them cover their faces when out in public. We rarely saw them in the tabloids, and certainly never heard any of them speak.

Child psychologist Linda Blair thinks the Jackson family made a poor judgment in allowing Paris to speak. She says, "To be thrust into the limelight as Paris was is potentially very traumatic. This is a girl who has been shielded from the media her whole life. When a child is in shock, as Paris still will be from her father's death, the most important thing is to keep everything as normal as possible. But the opposite has happened here."

"The world has rarely seen Paris' face and has never heard her talk. But here she was making a speech to billions of people across the world. She is completely unused to speaking on stage. But here she was speaking on the biggest stage possible."

"In times like this logic goes out the window, so you can't blame the family for letting her do it. But they certainly made a bad judgment."

Yesterday, the show’s producer Ken Erlich told reporters Paris’ speech wasn’t planned. Janet was expected to take the stage to speak on her bother’s behalf, but Paris ended up wanting to talk. Urlich also said the show was put together so quickly, that a lot of it wasn’t necessarily planned, but ended up coming together perfectly.

What do you think of Paris’ heartfelt speech? Do you think it was a good idea, or will this be bad for Paris in the long run?

WATCH PARIS' HEARTFELT SPEECH HERE
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Reader Comments
8:34AM 07/12/09 LosAngBabe09
That was very sweet what she said. God love her she only spoke what she felt and should be allowed to do so.
2:24PM 07/11/09 maggz
can people just let his kids grieve in peace. ASSHOLES!
4:33PM 07/09/09 alwayzreal
He shielded them to protect them as the media and public can be cruel. The family is in grief and during times of grief you may not always be thinking clearly anyway. They were nice to even share their brothers memorial with all of us. Those who love Michael need to slam any media outlet that abuses these children the way they did their father. They did the right thing. Leave them alone.
4:27PM 07/09/09 alwayzreal
This is exactly the reason he shielded his kids the way he did. Paris "asked" to speak. You can tell that from the body language up there. Her family allowed her to and that was the right thing because if they hadn't she'd have resented it all her life. I hope ppl leave this children and this family alone.
11:44AM 07/09/09 Artichokey
How can anyone possibly find fault with a little girl making a heartfelt and personal comment about how much she loved her daddy? It was way better than all that over the top, self-promoting celebrity mess that went on. The most honest moment of the whole memorial.
0:06AM 07/09/09 bdowdy
Blair go back to school you don't know nothing or get a heart make a trip to the wizard of oz
0:01AM 07/09/09 bdowdy
What are you talk about Micheal was going to take the kids on tour with him look like was Paris ideal anyway.
10:42PM 07/08/09 Eboe
I don't know if it was a good idea or not, but it seems like it was Paris's idea. I do not think it was staged either.
9:44PM 07/08/09 Dolce
now eveybody is gone be after her? for crist sake leave them alone.
9:25PM 07/08/09 miley4ever
Blair, go jump off a cliff! This is her DAD, and she can do whatever the hell she wants to! She wanted to do it, and she did. It was a touching moment. And I think it was clear to her what was going to happen if she made that decision. She's not stupid, but you're making yourself look like it.
5:29PM 07/08/09 hnyjackie
ayyyyyya,These people need to leave the jackson family alone.Please dont start messing with his children!!!! Oh & for the people that said it was planned for Paris to speak,No it wasn't they told her to speak up cause they knew she wanted to say her good bye to her dad.That was a bueatiful thing.It was totaly appropriate.
3:45PM 07/08/09 Donna
OMG! where were these psychologists when Michael Jackson needed help? what next? stories about his innocent kids? leave the Jackson's family alone! No one forced them to be on stage or his daughter to speak; it was clear Paris Jackson wanted to say good bye to her father and to tell him how much she loved him; everybody else did...who knew Michael Jackson best? his kids! they were the closet ones to him, lived with him and they KNEW his love and their love for each other; it was more than fitting for her to share her love with her father publicly! These people clearly do not have children; if so, before they die, hope the have a will saying their kids should not attend their funeral or speak. GIVE ME A BREAK!
3:43PM 07/08/09 myholly787
Pea soup, Linda Blair....PEA SOUP!
2:23PM 07/08/09 PrincessTiff
I'm sorry but I am not convinced it was entirely her idea to speak. The way they all jumped to make sure she was speaking in the microphone and speaking loud enough seemed a little strange.
1:46PM 07/08/09 wtff
someone wants some attention..if the kid wanted to say something to dad why not let her.. this was her chance and i am sure she justed wanted people to know how great her dad.. she may have been shielded from the public but i think she was clever to know what was going on...
1:27PM 07/08/09 myholly787
Linda Blair should know all about childhood trauma after her incredibly disturbing experiences with demonic posession in The Exorcist! I still can't forget her head spinning around like a helicopter blade...spewing pea soup vomit EVRYWHERE! Ugh! She is truely an expert...on pea soup anywho!
1:19PM 07/08/09 StarryEyes87
Ooh please......wth do these psychologists know...all they do is talK...
0:52PM 07/08/09 potu
Oh hell! The drama will never stop!!! So sad!
0:33PM 07/08/09 unklscrufy
Spoken like a true Michael Jackson fan, huh girly 987? Michael would be so proud of you talking to someone else like that.
0:18PM 07/08/09 girly987
Linda Blair? You can go fuck yourself. You don't come out of your little corner when other children are being "hurt" but when a child who personally chooses to say something about her father, you open your mouth? You're the one who's going to potentially damage them with your brainless comments.. you dont even know the family so I suggest you shut the f*** up you stupid biatch!!
11:52AM 07/08/09 Amalyn
When your father dies, you can do whatever you want to deal with it. I think Michael would have been very proud of her. I love that little girl! She's precious! She knew MJ loved her.
11:02AM 07/08/09 ktygirl
Are we still going to judge this family after all they have been through??????? Please let's stop!
10:38AM 07/08/09 gretchens411
It was HER choice!! If the family had not allowed her to do so that could have been potentially harmful.She WANTED to speak to her father one last time and let the world know that he was so much more than an entertainer, he was her FATHER, and a human being first and foremost.She's old enough to be asked by a judge where she wants to live. Why wouldn't she be old enough to say goodbye to her father the way SHE wants too?
10:32AM 07/08/09 cporter3
There have also been psychologists who have said taht this was good closure for the kids. The girl wasn't speaking "to billions", she was speaking to her daddy. I think it was an unplanned spur of the moment thing that just came from her heart. I think "Child psychologist Linda Blair" just wanted to get her name in the news (ahole!)
10:30AM 07/08/09 LongIslandMa
it's about time she come out of her shell and speak. she's been sheltered for so long. she spoke from her heart. no one can fault her for that.
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