He now knows that there is really no chance that Sandra is gonna stick around, which is why he bolted out of rehab.
James has told his friends that he knows that the marriage is over.
A pal said: "Jesse is finally admitting to himself that he blew it. The marriage is over and he only has himself to blame.
"His stint at the Arizona rehab facility helped Jesse understand what he has done to his wife and his family. He is a beaten man. Jesse removing his wedding ring is a big deal. As long as he wore his wedding ring, he believed there was some hope. Now, he is finally admitting to himself and everyone else that any chance of getting back together with Sandra is dead," the pal added.
Sources close to Sandra thought that she would get back with him when the incident just occurred but as time has gone by she has realized that there is no way she can forgive him. She knows now that she deserves better and that she will eventually heal.